epistemological/linguistic question

[netmouse]

When someone says something you didn't hear or you weren't sure you heard correctly, and you say "sorry?" or "excuse me?" to get them to repeat or clarify, would you say you are in fact apologizing at that point, or are those words filling some other social or technical purpose?

Also, is there another similarly polite way to tell someone you couldn't hear them that is not an apology?

I suppose "could you repeat that?" comes to mind, but I'd welcome other ideas.

Comments

[backrubbear.livejournal.com]

Most of my friends say something like "I want you to arfle mumble fop?" or something similar - repeating back much of what you heard, including the misunderstood part.

Sometimes what you think you heard is more fun than what was really said.